I begin letters to Mayang as means to convey to my darling wife things I feel about her, and also hopefully as a means to help cope should I pass on before her.
It is a possibility that is very viable, in fact it is other me or you, and knowing how much I feel for you, and the pain I would inevitably go through should I lose you, it's something I wouldnt want to happen to you.
I was reading this article based on narrative therapy in this book, and of how our concept of our life through our life stories may be affected through the lost of a loved one, and one way to review our constructed life stories is through the metaphor of "Hullo again!"
This is where we revisit our lost loved ones, and appreciate ourselves through the eyes of this person should he be alive. And I want you to appreciate yourself in my eyes, and what better way for you to experience it than for me to tell you myself what I appreciate about you!
First thing that comes to mind
I appreciate your laughters whenever I tell a joke, or whenever we watch something funny together. Your laughter and appreciation for a good joke is something I always love to hear and attain, so much so that nowadays I don't like watching comedies without you (cue the Office). Things are so much less funny and cheery when you are around, you are the glow that compliments all the beautiful things in the world. My glowing and shining star.
Love you lots my little tiny duck
From your Hunny Bear
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